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Mommies, please help me to decide. 5 years po ako naging full time mom and this year nag decide na ako ulit bumalik sa trabaho. Since 5 years old na ang anak ko naisip ko nang mag trabaho ulit. March 2014 po ako nag start sa trabaho as office secretary, 3 mons pa lang po ang company kaya ako pa lang po ang office staff at meron ng 12 production staff. So sa office all around ang work ko. Thru phone or viber lang kame nag uusap ng boss ko. Hindi sya nag stay sa office once or twice a week lang sya bumisita sa office. In short ako yung katiwala niya sa company niya. Ang anak ko naman po iniiwan ko lang sa hipag ko. At nag aabot na lang ako sa kanya every pay day. Ngayon po nag kasakit ang anak ko, at kinailangan ma confine asthma attack at Pneomonia ang findings ng pedia niya. Naiisip ko na po mag resign sa work ko dahil sa nangyari sa anak ko. Nung ako ang nag babantay sa kanya common lang ang nagiging sakit niya ubo't sipon ganun lang po di namin naranasan ma confine in 5 years na ako ang nag aalaga sa kanya. At ang anak ko po gusto niya ako na lang ulit mag bantay sa kanya. Ang dilema ko po dito ay sayang naman ang future career ko sa comapany at pano naman ang anak ko? Please mommies give me some advice tulungan nyo po ako na maliwanagan ang isip ko kung ano ba tlaga ang dapat kong gawin. Thanks in advance mommies.

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Re: sayang naman ang future career ko at pano naman ang anak ko?
« Reply #1 on: April 25, 2014, 09:22:41 pm »

Hindi lang po ikaw. Every working Mm has that dillema. Magkakasakit ang anak, hindi makakaattend sa school program, even away on birthdays and Christmas. Your son getting sick is not your fault nor caused by your decision to go back to work. You can take a leave but no need to quit.
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Re: sayang naman ang future career ko at pano naman ang anak ko?
« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2014, 12:08:14 am »

mommyjazz is right! i went back to work when my daughter reached 1 yr and 1 month... kumuha ako yaya... after a month nagka pneumonia anak ko... gusto ko ng mag quit nun kaso panu nga naman ipapakain ko sa kanya... ang ginawa ko leave ako 2 days sinundan ko lahat ng ginagawa ng yaya and tinuruan ko sya lahat... ngaun so far wala naman na nangyayaring masama...
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Re: sayang naman ang future career ko at pano naman ang anak ko?
« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2014, 11:51:53 am »

Yes sis.. Tama  sila mommyjazz & iamsheymareie.

Ako din. Working Mom. parehas kami ng husband ko. I went back to my work right after ng Maternity Leave ko w/c is 2 months. Naiiwan si baby sa Mom ko. Since kasama namin sila sa bahay namin. Good thing is, May Leave naman tayo diba? vacation leave or sick leave. ginagamit ko yun pag kailangan.. And mabait din ang boss ko since Mom din sya. Maybe talk to your boss.. siguro naman maiintindihan niya ang situation mo right now sis.

Never quit sis. Sayang eh.Stable na ang job mo and sa panahon ngayon, mahirap kung wala kang work. paano mo na lang masusustentuhan si baby mo at ikaw? Hindi rin naman dahil sa work mo kaya nagkasakit si baby.
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Re: sayang naman ang future career ko at pano naman ang anak ko?
« Reply #4 on: May 05, 2014, 11:53:28 am »

sobrang thank you sa mga advices nyo mommyjazz, iamsheymareie, and kathnrhai.
so far po im still working at meron na po kame nakuha na yaya ng baby ko. so far so good naman si yaya. sana lang po until the end ganun sya ka ok sa baby ko. nalinawan naman po ako sa mga advices nyo. sobrang salamat po talaga. Godbless po sa mga mommies.:)
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Re: sayang naman ang future career ko at pano naman ang anak ko?
« Reply #5 on: February 12, 2021, 03:42:42 am »

Hello smartparenting,

I just want to share my story. I was a flight attendant of 10 years, i was based in dubai UAE. Pangarap ko talaga maging flight attendant and i’m thankful natupad ko. Until i got married, me and my husband waited long time for me to get pregnant as per the doctor stress and because i am PCOS rin. So i decided to stop my flight attendant career since flying of different time and countries worldwide is very stressing, we prayed so hard for me to get pregnant naturally and thank God i got pregnant after almost 4 years of waiting. When i was pregnant i had just started a career in the abu dhabi airport based in the UAE parin. With my work, we saved some money during my panganganak, check ups and all my vitamins are paid by my work’s insurance, we haven’t spent anything because of that. I delivered via vaginal birth a bouncing baby girl with only 2 hours of labour and all is covered by my work’s insurance, it is of big help financially.
As we started to raised our baby girl, it became difficult for us to raise the baby alternately since me and my husband are both working, even with the help of our mothers, it is hard as they are already old.
So then we decided for me to quit my job, so i can be a full time mom to our baby girl which we waited for so long. It is quite difficult financially but with the proper conversation with your husband and a little pagtitipid, nothing can never be solved.
I have no regrets, i am very happy to be her full time mom, it is hard at first since i have no clue how to raise a baby, and since we are still living here in the UAE, i have no relatives or parents to help me with. I just keep on reading and watching videos on raising a baby, also thankful to smartparenting as your stories continue to help me raise our baby.
As she is now a toddler and growing healthy, i am glad that i quit my career even if it was my ever dream, it is overwhelming to be with her in all her milestones and developments, learned about her tantrums and mood swings, laugh together, and teach her all the things she needed to learn.
I know i am still starting also learning and on the process of her growing, but i can say i am happy i chose this life to be with her everyday 24/7, with sleep or without sleep, and still counting.
My story only shows that we as a mother went through some difficult choices in our life, but we are strong enough to choose what is best for our children, as we no longer lived for ourselves but now as a mother, we lived for our children.
It also a blessing as my husband got promoted so we managed our expenses properly.
To all the mothers, you are all wonderfully created by God and whatever choice you made just put it through Him and God will guide you along the way. To God be the glory.

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